Forgiveness

I came across two verses that stopped me in my tracks. I just started writing my thoughts down and it felt a bit random.

I learned about forgiveness the hard way.

I learned from scripture that it’s not optional for the Christ follower.

I learned that forgiveness is more for me than the other person.

I learned that forgiveness is connected to my heart and my personal sin.

Bitterness is like a poison pill that I take hoping that it kills the other person. Bitterness is a huge roadblock to forgiveness. My unwillingness to forgive feeds bitterness. Forgiveness starves bitterness.

Forgiveness isn’t easy until my perspective about myself enters the picture.

Jesus spoke plainly about forgiveness. Check this out…..

¹⁴ “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you.¹⁵ But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. – Jesus (Matthew 6:14-15 NLT)

Forgiveness from God is contingent upon my forgiveness of others. It was when I realized that it could have been me who did that, I can forgive the indiscretion of others.

When I realize what a jerk I can be, it’s easier to forgive other jerks for hurting me.

When I realize what a scum bag I can be, it’s easier for me the accept the forgiveness of the Lord and give it out generously.

I’ve forgiven hurtful people. I’ve forgiven some people who caused nasty soul wounds. I’m not a hero for forgiving – just a follower of Jesus who’s been forgiven much more than I deserve – I’ve hurt Him deeply many times over.

I’ll be working on forgiveness for years to come I’m sure as I interact with others.

Pressing On

Dwayne