I grew up thinking that church buildings were sacred and holy. I learned to not run and play inside the church. I was supposed to be reverent and respectful. I’m pretty confident that my family wasn’t the only one who taught this concept. I really think that this concept came from more of an Old…
I believe in the power or prayer. Prayer doesn’t make me powerful, but I believe it admits powerlessness. I grew up learning about prayer and how powerful a tool it can be for a child of God. When my kids were small I prayed with them often. I remember one night when my daughter…
I learned at a very young age that what you say should match up with what you do and who you are. Integrity is defined as: adherence to moral and ethical principles; soundness of moral character; honesty. This is easier to say than to do. I believe our character is often tested in secret,…
I enjoy listening to inspirational and encouraging speakers. I pay careful attention to the messenger as well as the message. I will give someone a closer listen if I believe they are genuine and real. If I feel like they are faking sincerity or faking honesty that simply destroys their message in my mind. I’ve…
During my years as a student pastor, I learned that I couldn’t be every place at the same time. As my ministry and influence grew, I realized that I needed to be pouring into other leaders who could then multiply my efforts. The ministry grew and my ability to lead was broadened. The same principle…
Over the years, I’ve become a bit less trusting of people in certain areas. I think that some people live by deep convictions and would never lie, cheat or steal. Then there are others who appear trustworthy, but somehow justify taking a little for themselves here or there. I’m thinking specifically of people who serve…
I have loved music since I was a very young kid. I think it’s in my blood. My grandmother was Essie Hayes Hicks from Boone, North Carolina. Her family was very musical. She played guitar and her musical style was Appalachian. I loved watching her play as a kid. When I was about 12 my…
I’ve often said that I felt sort of bad for my oldest son. His mother and I did the best we could as his parents. He didn’t come with an instruction manual. Godly parents had raised us both, so we had some of the basic parenting skills that we learned from our parents. Just…
I have to say that I enjoy blessing others. I enjoy hearing them say that they are grateful for something I’ve done or something I said. I think just about everyone I know enjoys affirmation. I know for a fact that the Lord also loves affirmation. He says so in His Word. David was at…
I believe that there is leadership in all of us. I’m pretty sure I’ve seen two-year olds leading their parents, even though it shouldn’t be that way. I’ve also seen many unlikely leaders who lead – some who have no clue what it means to lead. I believe leadership is a great responsibility and should…