Big Spender
I used to marvel at wealthy people. They seem to be relaxed and happy. As I got older, I learned that often they weren’t wealthy at all. They were leveraged by debt and living way above their means to impress others. I tried that life and it about crushed me during the Great Recession. Dave Ramsey said that some people live to impress people they don’t even know or like. I was there. I learned the value of contentment. I learned that if you spend more than you make, you’ll end up broke. I heard a statistic recently that said that 50% of Americans can’t put their hands on $400. I was once there. I remember during the recession when my income really went down, I thought I was going to lose everything. I decided that once I got out the mess I was in, that I would NEVER go back to living like that. Dave Ramsey coined the phrase: “I want to live like no one else, so I can live and give like no one else”.
Solomon, who was arguably the wisest and the richest person who ever lived speaks a ton of wisdom in the book of Proverbs. It appears that he didn’t take his own advice, the way his life ended up. I want to glean some wisdom of him and put it into practice. Check this out….
20 The wise have wealth and luxury,
but fools spend whatever they get.
21 Whoever pursues righteousness and unfailing love
will find life, righteousness, and honor.(Proverbs 21:20-21 NLT)
I remember as young student pastor, a wise man telling me that you should give 10% of everything you earn and save (aka pay yourself) 10% of your earnings and live off the remaining 80% of your income. If I had done that, I would be wealthy by now. As it is, I’m on a “full court press” toward retirement. I recently heard a different version of that called the 70-10-10-10 rule. You give 10%, save 10%, invest 10% and live off of 70%. It’s all about self-discipline and being clear on what the end goal is.
I want to be wise and wealthy. I want to be known for giving and being generous. I want to honor the Lord in my management of my finances. I believe that I’m simply the “bookkeeper/steward of all that He has blessed me with. I don’t want to be a big spender, I want to be a wise and disciplined spender. I want to be clear about wants and needs. I want to pursue righteousness and love.
Pressing On!
Dwayne